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William M. Brown  
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 More options Apr 8 2006, 7:59 pm
Newsgroups: alt.recovery.addiction.alcoholism, alt.recovery.aa
From: "William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net>
Date: Sat, 8 Apr 2006 19:59:23 -0400
Local: Sat, Apr 8 2006 7:59 pm
Subject: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition
Friends,
    I am scheduled to make a presentation on the 3rd Tradition this month,
and so far, I have been unable to find out when the word: "sincere" was
removed from the text of the Tradition.  Can any of you be of help?
"Handsome" Bill (not bald Bill...)

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Ron G  
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 More options Apr 8 2006, 8:41 pm
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From: "Ron G" <r...@network12.com>
Date: Sat, 8 Apr 2006 20:41:58 -0400
Local: Sat, Apr 8 2006 8:41 pm
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net> wrote in message
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> Friends,
>    I am scheduled to make a presentation on the 3rd Tradition this month,
> and so far, I have been unable to find out when the word: "sincere" was
> removed from the text of the Tradition.  Can any of you be of help?
> "Handsome" Bill (not bald Bill...)

My understanding of this is that the word sincere was included in the 3rd
tradition during the early discussions and in the early drafts prior to
publication but in the end when the 12 & 12 was finally published in 1953
they (the writers of the 12 & 12) decided to not include the word sincere. I
have nothing factual to back this up other than the memories of a friend of
mine who has been sober close to 50 years now.

RonG


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Charley O  
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 More options Apr 8 2006, 9:38 pm
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From: "Charley O" <gate1038spamf...@att.net>
Date: Sun, 09 Apr 2006 01:38:01 GMT
Local: Sat, Apr 8 2006 9:38 pm
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net> wrote in message
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> Friends,
>    I am scheduled to make a presentation on the 3rd Tradition this month,
> and so far, I have been unable to find out when the word: "sincere" was
> removed from the text of the Tradition.  Can any of you be of help?
> "Handsome" Bill (not bald Bill...)

What difference does it make ?  Are you "presenting" to a bunch of lawyers ?

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Robert McGregor  
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 More options Apr 8 2006, 10:51 pm
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From: "Robert McGregor" <robert_mcgre...@knickers.yahoo.com.au>
Date: Sun, 9 Apr 2006 12:51:52 +1000
Local: Sat, Apr 8 2006 10:51 pm
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net> wrote in message
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> Friends,
>    I am scheduled to make a presentation on the 3rd Tradition this month,
> and so far, I have been unable to find out when the word: "sincere" was
> removed from the text of the Tradition.  Can any of you be of help?
> "Handsome" Bill (not bald Bill...)

http://tinyurl.com/q37qe

However;-)

Particularly since the AA website has shunted  the long form Traditions from
contemporary to archival pertinence, http://tinyurl.com/ranyf an amusing
aspect of AA's "Traditions" is the dishonesty that generally gurgles to the
surface on mention of recovered alcoholics being precluded from A.A.
membership by that same Tradition Three.

Perhaps a presentation questioning oldtimers honesty rather than newcomers
sincerity may be a bit more exciting.

Bob


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William M. Brown  
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 More options Apr 9 2006, 12:02 am
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From: "William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net>
Date: Sun, 9 Apr 2006 00:02:45 -0400
Local: Sun, Apr 9 2006 12:02 am
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"Charley O" <gate1038spamf...@att.net> wrote in message

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> "William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net> wrote in message
> news:lZWdnREDK9ir06XZRVn-sg@comcast.com...
>> Friends,
>>    I am scheduled to make a presentation on the 3rd Tradition this month,
>> and so far, I have been unable to find out when the word: "sincere" was
>> removed from the text of the Tradition.  Can any of you be of help?
>> "Handsome" Bill (not bald Bill...)

> What difference does it make ?  Are you "presenting" to a bunch of lawyers
> ?

Well, Charlie, I like to present facts rather than speculation.  To me it
appears to be the only change ever made to the Traditions, and I personally
am pleased the work "honest" was deleted as I believe in inclusivity  -  and
*yes*, there are lawyers that may be in attendance.  I am on a panel
discussion of the Traditions to be presented to anybody who happens to be in
attendance, AA members or lawyers or not!
Handsome Bill

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William M. Brown  
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 More options Apr 9 2006, 12:05 am
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From: "William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net>
Date: Sun, 9 Apr 2006 00:05:21 -0400
Local: Sun, Apr 9 2006 12:05 am
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"Ron G" <r...@network12.com> wrote in message

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Thanks, Ron.  I *do* appreciate your input.  Being that changing a Tradition
would be a long, apparently complicated process, I thought that change would
have been "less casual" than that..
Handsome Bill

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William M. Brown  
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 More options Apr 9 2006, 12:13 am
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From: "William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net>
Date: Sun, 9 Apr 2006 00:13:24 -0400
Local: Sun, Apr 9 2006 12:13 am
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"Robert McGregor" <robert_mcgre...@knickers.yahoo.com.au> wrote in message

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Thanks for the insight on the Preamble, Bob.  I was asked to do a
presentation on a Traditions Panel.  I am in no position to question
anybody's honesty or sincerity since I am "only" a member of AA who managed
to stay sober today with the help of God and the fellowship.
Handsome Bill (my critics tell me if I stay around long enough, I may get
"honest" enough to drop the "Handsome" and accept my wide part..)

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 More options Apr 9 2006, 1:55 am
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From: "Robert McGregor" <robert_mcgre...@knickers.yahoo.com.au>
Date: Sun, 9 Apr 2006 15:55:39 +1000
Local: Sun, Apr 9 2006 1:55 am
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net> wrote in message
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> "Robert McGregor" <robert_mcgre...@knickers.yahoo.com.au> wrote in message
> news:443876ca$0$510$61c65585@uq-127creek-reader-03.brisbane.pipenetworks.com.au...
>> http://tinyurl.com/q37qe
> Thanks for the insight on the Preamble, Bob.  I was asked to do a
> presentation on a Traditions Panel.

Obviously I've met my match in the pedantry department. Here' s what araa's
"original" jimb;-) clarified for us (in the same thread btw) :-

"The 1st edition of the BB had the statement "The only requirement for
membership is an honest desire to stop drinking. (April,39)

  The "long form" of the traditions was published in the GV in January 46
and remains as it is today.

In November 1949, the Traditions were presented in the AA Grapevine in the
"short form" and the 3rd tradition read "The only requirement for membership
is a desire to stop drinking." This is unchanged. " http://tinyurl.com/s4chf

Bob


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 More options Apr 9 2006, 2:12 am
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From: "Starvin'Marv" <marv...@hotmail.com>
Date: 8 Apr 2006 23:12:25 -0700
Local: Sun, Apr 9 2006 2:12 am
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition
If I am truly "honest" with myself, I have no desire to quit drinking.
I love drinking, I love alcohol, I love the feeling it gives me. My
desire to quit drinking is imposed upon me because I can no longer
tolerate the effects. Show me an alcoholic that would not love to
embrace the habit again if they could embibe "socially" without
terrible consequences.

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 More options Apr 9 2006, 3:59 am
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From: "Robert McGregor" <robert_mcgre...@knickers.yahoo.com.au>
Date: Sun, 9 Apr 2006 17:59:58 +1000
Local: Sun, Apr 9 2006 3:59 am
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"Starvin'Marv" <marv...@hotmail.com> wrote in message

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> If I am truly "honest" with myself, I have no desire to quit drinking.
> I love drinking, I love alcohol, I love the feeling it gives me. My
> desire to quit drinking is imposed upon me because I can no longer
> tolerate the effects.

That's arguably why you've only ever paused your drinking, and never
genuinely stopped.

> Show me an alcoholic that would not love to
> embrace the habit again if they could embibe "socially" without
> terrible consequences.

Certainly me, and probably any other real alcoholic who has actually been
all the way to rock bottom where, even with alcohol, good feelings have
morphed into utter hopelessness; but finding, taking, and nurturing a
path to reality, where good feelings can be integral with accomplishments.
Sometimes, regardless of other outcomes, good feelings can be simply a
serendipitous result of effort.

Thus, as a result of experience, this agnostic distrusts any feelings
attributed to the grace of  God, be that God Bachus, or not!

PS: Did I merit the celebrated Darren award for sentence structure, too?

Bob


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Charley O  
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 More options Apr 9 2006, 9:40 am
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From: "Charley O" <gate1038spamf...@att.net>
Date: Sun, 09 Apr 2006 13:40:49 GMT
Local: Sun, Apr 9 2006 9:40 am
Subject: Re: A.A.'s 3rd Tradition

"William M. Brown" <cnbbr...@comcast.net> wrote in message
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Well let's see now -  is this part of a CPC or PI effort ?  - or are you a
lone wolf trying to do something on your own ?  - or perhaps some well
meaning worker in the field who is trying to explain something they only
have an intellectual understanding of ?   In any case you might do well to
remember that it is the "spirit" of the Traditions that important - they are
not contracts.
"A code of Traditions could not, of course, ever become rule or law.  But it
might act as a guide for Trustees, Headquarters people, and especially for
AA groups with growing pains.  ...  The Traditions of AA were first
published in the so-called "long form" in the Grapevine of May 1946"   -
AACOA p203.
"The fundamental for AA memebership could thus never be under the control of
any other person.  Nor need it - nor could it - even be under the complete
control of the alcoholic, for the "honest desire to stop drinking" could
surely co-exist with a desire to drink ... Yet even asking this limited
control proved in AA's continuing experience to be asking too much.  The
qualification "honest" or "sincere" was dropped in 1949, at the time of the
first publication of the "short form" of the AA Traditions."   "Not God",
p106