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Re: Smoking & Self Mutilation: Help! I need advice now
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BessieBee
Mar 10, 2012, 10:29:43 AM3/10/12
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On 3/10/2012 3:31 AM, Rabia Hassen wrote:
> Hi Everyone :) Four months ago I got my boyfriend to quit smoking. Its
> always been a habit I've despised, having come from a family of
> addicts. So as soon as I found out that he was a smoker, I spoke to
> him and together we worked on it. Since the beginning of the year, he
> has been working and living with his uncle who is an absolute tyrant.
> He has been very stressed and his family is basically falling apart.
> He called me this morning and told me he started smoking again. He
> said it helps him cope. He has this urge to cut himself and so far the
> only thing that helps him is smoking. He used to do it a few years ago
> before he was with me. Honestly, this is freaking me out. I don't know
> how to help him, or what to say. I don't want to come across as
> superior or preachy. And I don't want to stress him out anymore.
> Please help me...
You and your boyfriend need more help than you'll need from a group on
the computer. Call your county health department and get some
psychological counseling.
BessieBee
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"Don't talk unless you can improve the silence."
> Hi Everyone :) Four months ago I got my boyfriend to quit smoking. Its
> always been a habit I've despised, having come from a family of
> addicts. So as soon as I found out that he was a smoker, I spoke to
> him and together we worked on it. Since the beginning of the year, he
> has been working and living with his uncle who is an absolute tyrant.
> He has been very stressed and his family is basically falling apart.
> He called me this morning and told me he started smoking again. He
> said it helps him cope. He has this urge to cut himself and so far the
> only thing that helps him is smoking. He used to do it a few years ago
> before he was with me. Honestly, this is freaking me out. I don't know
> how to help him, or what to say. I don't want to come across as
> superior or preachy. And I don't want to stress him out anymore.
> Please help me...
You and your boyfriend need more help than you'll need from a group on
the computer. Call your county health department and get some
psychological counseling.
BessieBee
--
"Don't talk unless you can improve the silence."
Review Smoking
Mar 11, 2012, 12:40:14 AM3/11/12
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smoking is purely to relieve stress.
If the living situtation is really terrible, then nobody wins. Maybe
investigate alternate living arrangement, as he can't continue on this
path.
http://www.reviewsmoking.com
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