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Marian

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Apr 8, 2002, 10:54:22 PM4/8/02
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Hi,

"Bi. Poly. Switch. I'm not indecisive, just greedy."

I have always liked this button, I have always thought this was an
awfully cool button. I like the slogan. I like nancybuttons in
general. But, the slogan doesn't apply to me because I am neither bi,
nor switch.

A friend of mine got a custom button reading:

"Vanilla. Monogamous. Sorry."

which I also like, it has the same lovely cadence as the "Bi. Poly.
Switch." button but again it doesn't apply to me. I'm not monogamous,
and I don't know if I could be called vanilla.

So, I'm asking the group if anyone can come up with a similar type
slogan for a straight, non-bdsm, poly so I can get a button made.

-M

songbird

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Apr 9, 2002, 12:42:00 AM4/9/02
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straight buddha poly ?


songbird *tweets* (.hug.hug.hug


Ryk

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Apr 9, 2002, 10:53:06 PM4/9/02
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On Mon, 08 Apr 2002 22:54:22 -0400, in message
<3CB257DE...@verizon.net>
Marian <mails...@verizon.net> wrote:

>So, I'm asking the group if anyone can come up with a similar type
>slogan for a straight, non-bdsm, poly so I can get a button made.

Straight. Poly. Really!

Ryk

Cally Soukup

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Apr 10, 2002, 1:16:19 AM4/10/02
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Marian <mails...@verizon.net> wrote in article <3CB257DE...@verizon.net>:
> Hi,

> "Vanilla. Monogamous. Sorry."

There's always "Poly but Picky".

--
"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I will defend
to the death your right to say it." -- Beatrice Hall

Cally Soukup sou...@pobox.com

Marian

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Apr 11, 2002, 4:23:03 PM4/11/02
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songbird wrote:

> Marian wrote:
> > Hi,


>
> > So, I'm asking the group if anyone can come up with a similar type
> > slogan for a straight, non-bdsm, poly so I can get a button made.
>
> straight buddha poly ?
>

That works, except for the fact that I'm acquaintances with a non straight
man named Buddha[1]. And that is just too weird of an assosciation for my
brain.

-M

[1] As he puts it, "When I was named, my mom was on prescription drugs and
my dad wasn't."

Marian

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Apr 11, 2002, 4:24:03 PM4/11/02
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Cally Soukup wrote:

> Marian <mails...@verizon.net> wrote in article <3CB257DE...@verizon.net>:
> > Hi,
>
> > "Bi. Poly. Switch. I'm not indecisive, just greedy."

> > "Vanilla. Monogamous. Sorry."


> > So, I'm asking the group if anyone can come up with a similar type
> > slogan for a straight, non-bdsm, poly so I can get a button made.
>
> There's always "Poly but Picky".
>

I may not have morals, but I do have standards.

:)

-M


susan ramirez

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Apr 11, 2002, 4:32:14 PM4/11/02
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"Marian" <mails...@verizon.net> wrote in message
news:3CB5F0A7...@verizon.net...

> I'm acquaintances with a non straight man named Buddha[1].

> -M
>
> [1] As he puts it, "When I was named, my mom was on prescription drugs and
> my dad wasn't."

"My mom went to nirvana, and all I got was this lousy weird name."


Marian

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Apr 11, 2002, 9:49:23 PM4/11/02
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Ryk wrote:

I like this one.

-M

Ryk

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Apr 11, 2002, 11:17:32 PM4/11/02
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On Thu, 11 Apr 2002 21:49:23 -0400, in message
<3CB63D22...@verizon.net>
Marian <mails...@verizon.net> wrote:

Unfortunately it's a lousy public position. Poly is really greedy and
being straight means taking het privilege, or so I've been told....

Ryk, certified dirty old man

Tiger Spot

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Apr 12, 2002, 12:27:22 AM4/12/02
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On Thu, 11 Apr 2002 16:24:03 -0400, Marian <mails...@verizon.net>
wrote in <3CB5F0E3...@verizon.net>:

Now, I think that right there makes a darn good button.


-- Theresa
tiger_spot(at)mail.utexas.edu

serene

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Apr 12, 2002, 8:05:21 AM4/12/02
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Marian wrote:
>
> So, I'm asking the group if anyone can come up with a similar type
> slogan for a straight, non-bdsm, poly so I can get a button made.

I can send you my "Yes, I do, but not with you" button.
;-)

serene, who will ponder while she reads the rest of the
thread
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"Truth isn't always beauty, but the hunger for it is."
Nadine Gordimer

http://www.serenepages.org

Marian

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Apr 12, 2002, 2:07:35 PM4/12/02
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Tiger Spot wrote:

Already got that one. I have approximately 100 buttons.

-M

Marian

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Apr 12, 2002, 2:09:11 PM4/12/02
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Ryk wrote:

> Marian <mails...@verizon.net> wrote:
> >Ryk wrote:
> >> Marian <mails...@verizon.net> wrote:
> >>
> >> >So, I'm asking the group if anyone can come up with a similar type
> >> >slogan for a straight, non-bdsm, poly so I can get a button made.
> >>
> >> Straight. Poly. Really!
> >
> >I like this one.
>
> Unfortunately it's a lousy public position. Poly is really greedy and
> being straight means taking het privilege, or so I've been told....
>

What is the "het privilege?"

As for the really greedy thing, I find it a lousy position to take when
giving the long explanation of poly but a more than suitable for a one
sentence job.

> Ryk, certified dirty old man

Cool! How do you get certified at that?

-M

Bearpaw

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Apr 12, 2002, 3:15:45 PM4/12/02
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Marian <mails...@verizon.net> writes:

>
>Ryk wrote:
>>
>> Unfortunately it's a lousy public position. Poly is really greedy and
>> being straight means taking het privilege, or so I've been told....
>
>What is the "het privilege?"

The privileges associated with being (or appearing to be) heterosexual
in a hetero-centric society. Legal things, like state recognition and
associated bennies being available for (a subset of) heterosexual
(or at least mixed-gender) relationships, and social things, like
being generally safer from verbal, economic, legal and/or physical
hassling for ones choice of romantic partner. Et cetera.

It's less often something that someone "takes" than it's what they're
given.

Never heard of it being associated with poly, though.

>> Ryk, certified dirty old man
>
>Cool! How do you get certified at that?

"Practice, practice, practice."

Bearpaw

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~~~~~~~~~~~ bea...@shore.net ~~~~~~~~~~~~
"If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil
deeds and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us
and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the
heart of every human being." - Alexander Solzhenitsyn

olddguyy

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Apr 12, 2002, 9:53:57 PM4/12/02
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My wife likes 'Poly but picky'.

Now where do we get the buttons?

Oldd Guyy

Poly Vanilla Straight - help, I sound like a cocktail. :)

(My wifes comment on the cocktail remark I shall NOT share. :)
delightfully evil woman)

Aahz Maruch

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Apr 12, 2002, 10:17:25 PM4/12/02
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In article <504fc198.0204...@posting.google.com>,

olddguyy <oldd...@lycos.com> wrote:
>
>My wife likes 'Poly but picky'.
>Now where do we get the buttons?

http://www.nancybuttons.com/
--
--- Aahz <*> (Copyright 2002 by aa...@pobox.com)

Hugs and backrubs -- I break Rule 6 http://www.rahul.net/aahz/
Androgynous poly kinky vanilla queer het Pythonista

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--Brian Mailman, news.groups

Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 13, 2002, 2:54:49 AM4/13/02
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Aahz Maruch wrote:
>
> In article <504fc198.0204...@posting.google.com>,
> olddguyy <oldd...@lycos.com> wrote:
> >
> >My wife likes 'Poly but picky'.
> >Now where do we get the buttons?
>
> http://www.nancybuttons.com/

I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like. (Hmmm,
should I actually admit that in public, or is it the equivalent of
walking around carrying a big sign saying "Look at me, I've never
been in the right place at the right time!"?)

A while back I was reading "The Adventures of Samurai Cat" to my
children and noticed that Nancy was listed in the acknowledgments.
--
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Pig Legionnaire

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Apr 13, 2002, 9:03:46 AM4/13/02
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Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com>, in article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>, dixit:

>Aahz Maruch wrote:
>> http://www.nancybuttons.com/

>I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
>get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like. (Hmmm,
>should I actually admit that in public, or is it the equivalent of
>walking around carrying a big sign saying "Look at me, I've never
>been in the right place at the right time!"?)

*snicker* We won't ostracize.

I think they're pretty. Calligraphed, pretty papers, big round button
with sensible pin on the back. Crimping around the edges of the
plastic overwrap.

Lots of pretty papers.
--
Piglet, pig...@piglet.org

446 days down Ann B. for President!
1014 to go. Burlingham/Burlingham in 2004!

olddguyy

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Apr 13, 2002, 10:05:37 AM4/13/02
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aa...@panix.com (Aahz Maruch) wrote in message news:<a984fl$515$1...@panix1.panix.com>...

> In article <504fc198.0204...@posting.google.com>,
> olddguyy <oldd...@lycos.com> wrote:
> >
> >My wife likes 'Poly but picky'.
> >Now where do we get the buttons?
>
> http://www.nancybuttons.com/

Thank you! that is a truly awesome site!

Olddguyy

Aahz Maruch

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Apr 13, 2002, 10:56:12 AM4/13/02
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In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,

Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>Aahz Maruch wrote:
>> In article <504fc198.0204...@posting.google.com>,
>> olddguyy <oldd...@lycos.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>My wife likes 'Poly but picky'.
>>>Now where do we get the buttons?
>>
>> http://www.nancybuttons.com/
>
>I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
>get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like. (Hmmm,
>should I actually admit that in public, or is it the equivalent of
>walking around carrying a big sign saying "Look at me, I've never
>been in the right place at the right time!"?)

If you ever make it to the peninsula, we'll be glad to show you some.

J. Jasper

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Apr 13, 2002, 12:54:44 PM4/13/02
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You read "Samurai Cat" to your kids?

<swoon>

Marian

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Apr 13, 2002, 1:56:45 PM4/13/02
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Tane' Tachyon wrote:

> Aahz Maruch wrote:
> >
> > In article <504fc198.0204...@posting.google.com>,
> > olddguyy <oldd...@lycos.com> wrote:
> > >
> > >My wife likes 'Poly but picky'.
> > >Now where do we get the buttons?
> >
> > http://www.nancybuttons.com/
>
> I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
> get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.

So, write her and tell her... she might put pictures up.

Most people come to nancybuttons from seeing someone's cool button in
person and thus do not need to know what they look like.

As for what they look like, she has a dozen or so types of calligraphy
writing available and the buttons are the crimpy plastic on metal type.
Most buttons are on various shades of pastel paper (easier to read that
way). However, she takes a real joy in paper and has all sorts of
varieties to choose from. Custom buttons often get really fancy paper.

My "amazing exploding lifeguard" buttons are all on slightly reflective
blue/white paper than looks like sunlight on water.

> (Hmmm,
> should I actually admit that in public, or is it the equivalent of
> walking around carrying a big sign saying "Look at me, I've never
> been in the right place at the right time!"?)
>

Well, yes, it is the equivalent of doing that... but you've already done
it ... :^)

-M

Jim Roberts

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Apr 13, 2002, 3:06:32 PM4/13/02
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Marian wrote:

It already has long existed: Free Love.

jimbat


Vicki Rosenzweig

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Apr 13, 2002, 8:02:35 PM4/13/02
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Quoth Marian <mails...@verizon.net> on Sat, 13 Apr 2002 13:56:45
-0400:

>
>
>Tane' Tachyon wrote:
>
>> Aahz Maruch wrote:
>> >
>> > In article <504fc198.0204...@posting.google.com>,
>> > olddguyy <oldd...@lycos.com> wrote:
>> > >
>> > >My wife likes 'Poly but picky'.
>> > >Now where do we get the buttons?
>> >
>> > http://www.nancybuttons.com/
>>
>> I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
>> get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
>
>So, write her and tell her... she might put pictures up.
>
>Most people come to nancybuttons from seeing someone's cool button in
>person and thus do not need to know what they look like.
>
>As for what they look like, she has a dozen or so types of calligraphy
>writing available and the buttons are the crimpy plastic on metal type.
>Most buttons are on various shades of pastel paper (easier to read that
>way). However, she takes a real joy in paper and has all sorts of
>varieties to choose from. Custom buttons often get really fancy paper.
>
>My "amazing exploding lifeguard" buttons are all on slightly reflective
>blue/white paper than looks like sunlight on water.

Custom buttons can also be in a wide variety of ink colors. Dark blue
paper doesn't work well with black ink--but white-on-dark works.

It's worth noting that these buttons are large and friendly; if you
like the kind that are a centimeter or two across, so you can pin a
dozen on a bag or hat without blinding strangers with reflected
sunlight, you may find these a bit too blatant. Or you may find you
like both.

signed, a former casual employee
--
Vicki Rosenzweig v...@redbird.org http://www.redbird.org/
"We must use time creatively, and forever realize that the time
is always ripe to do right." -- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Menolly

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Apr 14, 2002, 4:22:50 AM4/14/02
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On Sat, 13 Apr 2002 20:02:35 -0400, Vicki Rosenzweig <v...@redbird.org>
posited:

Of the 13 I can easily see from here, 2 are white[1]-on-black, 6 are
black-on-pastel[2], and 5 are black-on-pattern. Text size ranges from
~.125 inch high letters to ~.5 inch high letters. Several styles of
lettering are included; I'm not a calligraphy geek, so I can't ID
them.

I also have two where I got the paper bit elsewhere[3] and had her
turn them into buttons.

[1] Something very pale; the light's not good, could be a light blue
or yellow, but I think it's white.

[2] solid or slightly uneven toned; white/pale grey, orange, purpley
blue, sky blue, pink, green

[3] a Christian Fandom meeting -- one is Aslan, with the words "He is
not a tame lion!", the other is the Greek letters [psi][phi][chi][rho]
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Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 16, 2002, 2:43:55 AM4/16/02
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Marian wrote:
>
> Tane' Tachyon wrote:
>
> > Aahz Maruch wrote:
> > >
> > > http://www.nancybuttons.com/
> >
> > I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
> > get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
>
> So, write her and tell her... she might put pictures up.

OK, I'll give that a try.

> Most people come to nancybuttons from seeing someone's cool button in
> person and thus do not need to know what they look like.

I've looked over the site now and then over the years but as far
as I know have never seen any of the actual buttons.


> As for what they look like, she has a dozen or so types of calligraphy
> writing available and the buttons are the crimpy plastic on metal type.
> Most buttons are on various shades of pastel paper (easier to read that
> way). However, she takes a real joy in paper and has all sorts of
> varieties to choose from. Custom buttons often get really fancy paper.

Sounds interesting, and like web page pictures would do a good job of
showing them off.

Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 16, 2002, 2:46:13 AM4/16/02
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"J. Jasper" wrote:
>
> Tane' Tachyon wrote:
> >
> > Aahz Maruch wrote:
> > >
> > > http://www.nancybuttons.com/

> >
> > A while back I was reading "The Adventures of Samurai Cat" to my
> > children and noticed that Nancy was listed in the acknowledgments.
>
> You read "Samurai Cat" to your kids?
>
> <swoon>

Ha ha ha ... well it's certainly very educational.

Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 16, 2002, 3:09:37 AM4/16/02
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Vicki Rosenzweig wrote:
>
> >Tane' Tachyon wrote:
> >
> >> Aahz Maruch wrote:
> >> >
> >> > http://www.nancybuttons.com/
> >>
> >> I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
> >> get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
> >
> It's worth noting that these buttons are large and friendly; if you
> like the kind that are a centimeter or two across, so you can pin a
> dozen on a bag or hat without blinding strangers with reflected
> sunlight, you may find these a bit too blatant. Or you may find you
> like both.
>
> signed, a former casual employee

Yeah, I do like little tiny ones, because what I do with them is put
them on my backpack (which is already pretty covered with buttons and
pins and other decorations), and the bigger something is the more
likely it is to stick way out and get snagged on something instead of
more or less hugging the flexing, curving, surfaces of the backpack.

Though it's not like some of the pins don't have sharp and/or oddly-
shaped parts sticking out this way and that, for example a long-
tailed parrot I got at one point last year when I was feeling
particularly charmed by this newsgroup.

Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 16, 2002, 3:25:52 AM4/16/02
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Aahz Maruch wrote:
>
> In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,
> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
> >Aahz Maruch wrote:
> >>
> >> http://www.nancybuttons.com/
> >
> >I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
> >get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like. (Hmmm,
> >should I actually admit that in public, or is it the equivalent of
> >walking around carrying a big sign saying "Look at me, I've never
> >been in the right place at the right time!"?)
>
> If you ever make it to the peninsula, we'll be glad to show you some.

I sure don't get up there very often, but last summer I went to a
party in Palo Alto where both guests of honor and at least one other
partygoer were (among all their other wonderful qualities)
alt.polyamory posters. So who knows, something like that could
happen again ...

Alexa M. Robinson

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Apr 16, 2002, 2:17:18 PM4/16/02
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In article <504fc198.0204...@posting.google.com>, olddguyy wrote:
> Poly Vanilla Straight - help, I sound like a cocktail. :)

This would probably make quite a good one too...

Alexa
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Stef Maruch

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Apr 19, 2002, 2:20:30 PM4/19/02
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In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,
Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:

>I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
>get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.

I just ordered a custom one, and I can scan it in if you want to see
what it looks like.

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** st...@cat-and-dragon.com <*> http://www.cat-and-dragon.com/stef
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It walked with arms hanging
Wanted the stream to be a river and the river a torrent
And this puddle, the sea
-- Handke

Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 19, 2002, 7:10:10 PM4/19/02
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Stef Maruch wrote:
>
> In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,
> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>
> >I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
> >get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
>
> I just ordered a custom one, and I can scan it in if you want to see
> what it looks like.

Sure! Now I'm curious as to what it will say.

I keep meaning to someday get in the right mood to get around to
(yes, these things are convoluted) putting up a web page about all my
various buttons and so on.

Learra

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Apr 19, 2002, 11:13:15 PM4/19/02
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On Fri, 19 Apr 2002 16:10:10 -0700, Tane' Tachyon
<tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
.
>I keep meaning to someday get in the right mood to get around to
>(yes, these things are convoluted) putting up a web page about all my
>various buttons and so on.


Hey! I *love* looking at peoples, ahem, ....buttons.


Learra
thinking about going to the driveway to roll up her car window, 'cept
for the fact that I am wearing a rather skimpy tank-top and there is a
bunch of rowdy "Dooooooooods" on the stoop across the street. My rats
are not terribly good at defending turf.

Jim Roberts

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Apr 20, 2002, 3:28:01 AM4/20/02
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Learra wrote:

Mine is recessed, and a great gatherer of lint, which my wife loves to
pick out.

jimbat


Learra

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Apr 20, 2002, 10:25:53 AM4/20/02
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On Sat, 20 Apr 2002 07:28:01 GMT, Jim Roberts
<jim...@bellatlantic.net> wrote:
.Mine is recessed, and a great gatherer of lint, which my wife loves
to
>pick out.
>
>jimbat
.

Dems weren't the buttons to which I was referring....

heh,

Learra
drinking Snarkbucks Coffee this morning.

Jim Roberts

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Apr 20, 2002, 3:15:55 PM4/20/02
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Learra wrote:

I wouldn't spend that kind of money unless I was getting some serious
cuddling.

Ooops, I sent the pic to the newsgroop instead of you personally. Big
Boo-boo!
Apologies to everyone.

jimbat


Stef Maruch

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Apr 21, 2002, 1:55:47 AM4/21/02
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In article <3CC0A3D2...@tachyonlabs.com>,

Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>Stef Maruch wrote:
>>
>> In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,
>> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>>
>> >I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
>> >get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
>>
>> I just ordered a custom one, and I can scan it in if you want to see
>> what it looks like.
>
>Sure! Now I'm curious as to what it will say.

http://cat-and-dragon.com/stef/pix/rumi.jpg

--
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** st...@cat-and-dragon.com <*> http://www.cat-and-dragon.com/stef
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Stef Maruch

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Apr 21, 2002, 2:04:18 AM4/21/02
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In article <a9tk93$3ng$1...@reader1.panix.com>,

Stef Maruch <st...@cat-and-dragon.com> wrote:
>In article <3CC0A3D2...@tachyonlabs.com>,
>Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>>Stef Maruch wrote:
>>>
>>> In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,
>>> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>>>
>>> >I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
>>> >get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
>>>
>>> I just ordered a custom one, and I can scan it in if you want to see
>>> what it looks like.
>>
>>Sure! Now I'm curious as to what it will say.
>
>http://cat-and-dragon.com/stef/pix/rumi.jpg

And for the Lynx-enhanced, the button says
"let the beauty you love be what you do -- Rumi"

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songbird

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Apr 21, 2002, 2:11:30 AM4/21/02
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Learra wrote:
> <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
> .
>> I keep meaning to someday get in the right mood to get around to
>> (yes, these things are convoluted) putting up a web page about all my
>> various buttons and so on.
>
>
> Hey! I *love* looking at peoples, ahem, ....buttons.

mee too!


songbird *peeps* (innie


Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 21, 2002, 4:18:19 AM4/21/02
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Stef Maruch wrote:
>
> In article <3CC0A3D2...@tachyonlabs.com>,
> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
> >Stef Maruch wrote:
> >>
> >> In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,
> >> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
> >>
> >> >I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
> >> >get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
> >>
> >> I just ordered a custom one, and I can scan it in if you want to see
> >> what it looks like.
> >
> >Sure! Now I'm curious as to what it will say.
>
> http://cat-and-dragon.com/stef/pix/rumi.jpg

Definitely beautiful. I sure keep seeing Rumi's name and work coming
up more and more these days.

Cheryl Martin

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Apr 21, 2002, 5:14:16 AM4/21/02
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In article <a9tk93$3ng$1...@reader1.panix.com>,
Stef Maruch <st...@cat-and-dragon.com> wrote:
>In article <3CC0A3D2...@tachyonlabs.com>,
>Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>>Stef Maruch wrote:
>>>
>>> In article <3CB7D639...@tachyonlabs.com>,
>>> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>>>
>>> >I've wished that there would be some pictures on that site so I could
>>> >get some idea of what the buttons actually *look* like.
>>>
>>> I just ordered a custom one, and I can scan it in if you want to see
>>> what it looks like.
>>
>>Sure! Now I'm curious as to what it will say.
>
>http://cat-and-dragon.com/stef/pix/rumi.jpg

Nifty!


Cheryl
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Stef Maruch

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Apr 21, 2002, 1:42:25 PM4/21/02
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In article <3CC275CB...@tachyonlabs.com>,

Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
>Stef Maruch wrote:
>> http://cat-and-dragon.com/stef/pix/rumi.jpg
>
>Definitely beautiful. I sure keep seeing Rumi's name and work coming
>up more and more these days.

The Essential Rumi by Coleman Barks is very important to me right now.

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Stef Maruch

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Apr 21, 2002, 1:49:27 PM4/21/02
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In article <21kcbu8p9uanvpdvu...@4ax.com>,
Ryk <r...@wellingtonhouse.org> wrote:

>Unfortunately it's a lousy public position. Poly is really greedy and
>being straight means taking het privilege, or so I've been told....
>
>Ryk, certified dirty old man

"Certified dirty old man" might also look nice on a button.

Stef, not quite ready to start calling herself a dirty old woman

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Pounce pounce O panther / Pounce upon your mate / Love and devour / Love
and hate / For you no pale prosaic love / No vulgar pigeon with his
dove. --Harry Crosby, "Panther"

Tane' Tachyon

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Apr 21, 2002, 3:13:16 PM4/21/02
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Stef Maruch wrote:
>
> In article <3CC275CB...@tachyonlabs.com>,
> Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:
> >Stef Maruch wrote:
> >> http://cat-and-dragon.com/stef/pix/rumi.jpg
> >
> >Definitely beautiful. I sure keep seeing Rumi's name and work coming
> >up more and more these days.
>
> The Essential Rumi by Coleman Barks is very important to me right now.

Coleman Barks was here (Santa Cruz) earlier this month reading from
Rumi's poetry with some people I know providing musical
accompaniment, but I was out of town that weekend. If you want to
see an interview with him that the local paper did about it, look at
http://www.santa-cruz.com/archive/2002/April/04/style/stories/09style.htm

Stef Maruch

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Apr 21, 2002, 4:04:12 PM4/21/02
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In article <3CC30F4C...@tachyonlabs.com>,
Tane' Tachyon <tac...@tachyonlabs.com> wrote:

>Coleman Barks was here (Santa Cruz) earlier this month reading from
>Rumi's poetry with some people I know providing musical
>accompaniment, but I was out of town that weekend. If you want to
>see an interview with him that the local paper did about it, look at
>http://www.santa-cruz.com/archive/2002/April/04/style/stories/09style.htm

Thanks! He was in SF too but I missed him. I am a bit afraid that seeing
him read them live would be a disappointment.

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Warning Labels"

nicole

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Apr 22, 2002, 10:06:44 AM4/22/02
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> From: st...@panix.com (Stef Maruch)

> The Essential Rumi by Coleman Barks is very important to me right now.

seconded. that's what david and i used when putting together our wedding
vows.

"we have this way of talking, and we have another."

nicole

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Who salutes longest?
Barbera Kruger, Untitled, 1989

nicole

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Apr 22, 2002, 10:08:01 AM4/22/02
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> From: st...@panix.com (Stef Maruch)
>> Ryk <r...@wellingtonhouse.org> wrote:

>> Ryk, certified dirty old man
>
> "Certified dirty old man" might also look nice on a button.
>
> Stef, not quite ready to start calling herself a dirty old woman

just so that you know...

www.stickernation.com will make you 100 vinyl black and white stickers with
whatever you want written on them for $25.

nicole

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Don't be a jerk
--Barbara Kruger, Bus Designs for Public Art Fund NYC, 1997

Stef Maruch

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Apr 22, 2002, 12:14:44 PM4/22/02
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In article <B8E99134.204E9%nic...@ocella.com>,

nicole <nic...@ocella.com> wrote:
>> From: st...@panix.com (Stef Maruch)
>
>> The Essential Rumi by Coleman Barks is very important to me right now.
>
>seconded. that's what david and i used when putting together our wedding
>vows.

Seeing so many good Rumi quotes in your .sig file was part of the reason
I sought out that book.

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Thirst drove me down to the water
Where I drank the moon's reflection.
Now I am a lion staring up totally
lost in love with the thing itself.
Don't ask questions about longing.
Look in my face. -- Rumi, tr. Coleman Barks

Jim Roberts

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Apr 22, 2002, 6:21:34 PM4/22/02
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nicole wrote:

> > From: st...@panix.com (Stef Maruch)
>
> > The Essential Rumi by Coleman Barks is very important to me right now.
>
> seconded. that's what david and i used when putting together our wedding
> vows.
>
> "we have this way of talking, and we have another."
>
> nicole

Yes, I have brought Rumi since you called him to my attention. An
interesting fellow. Since I had a "religious" experience when I was 11, it
seems to me he had something similar later on.

jimbat


nicole

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Apr 22, 2002, 8:29:03 PM4/22/02
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> From: st...@panix.com (Stef Maruch)

> Seeing so many good Rumi quotes in your .sig file was part of the reason
> I sought out that book.

*blush*

*cool*

nicole

--
You knock at the door of reality
shake your thought-wings, loosen
your shoulders,
and open
[Rumi - the Gift of Water]


nicole

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Apr 22, 2002, 8:30:31 PM4/22/02
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> From: Jim Roberts <jim...@bellatlantic.net>

*wow*

jimbat, i'm honored to have brought something to your attention. especially
since you are already so well read. :)

nicole

--
Be thirsty for the ultimate water,
and then be ready for what will
come pouring from the spring.
[Rumi - Joy at Sudden Disappointment]

Jim Roberts

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Apr 22, 2002, 10:22:27 PM4/22/02
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nicole wrote:

Oh, for god's sake, you need a spanking, from Rumi.

jimbat
the worst poet in the world: my great love can verify that, as she has three
cardboard boxes of it, unless she is lying, which would not be unknown. Along
with Rumi I could make an excellence from dross.


Anders Hultman

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Apr 28, 2002, 6:31:42 AM4/28/02
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Marian (mails...@verizon.net) wrote:


: Cally Soukup wrote:

: > Marian <mails...@verizon.net> wrote in article <3CB257DE...@verizon.net>:
: > > Hi,
: >
: > > "Bi. Poly. Switch. I'm not indecisive, just greedy."
: > > "Vanilla. Monogamous. Sorry."
: > > So, I'm asking the group if anyone can come up with a similar type
: > > slogan for a straight, non-bdsm, poly so I can get a button made.
: >
: > There's always "Poly but Picky".
: >

: I may not have morals, but I do have standards.

: :)

: -M

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Apr 28, 2002, 12:04:05 PM4/28/02
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On Thu, 11 Apr 2002, Marian wrote:

> I may not have morals, but I do have standards.

"If I ever find I need morals, I'll aquire them then."

anders
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Jim Roberts

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Apr 28, 2002, 2:38:23 PM4/28/02
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Anders Hultman wrote:

> On Thu, 11 Apr 2002, Marian wrote:
>
> > I may not have morals, but I do have standards.
>
> "If I ever find I need morals, I'll aquire them then."
>

I almost like that.

jimbat


Joe Woodhouse

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Apr 29, 2002, 11:02:48 PM4/29/02
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In article <Pine.SOL.4.10.10204281803170.14004-100000@kairos>,
and...@algonet.se says...

> On Thu, 11 Apr 2002, Marian wrote:
>
> > I may not have morals, but I do have standards.
>
> "If I ever find I need morals, I'll aquire them then."

"Son, it's high time you had a wife."

"Certainly, Father. Whose wife would you suggest?"

Australian Joe
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Aahz Maruch

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Apr 29, 2002, 11:15:18 PM4/29/02
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In article <MPG.1738b45f7...@news.cis.dfn.de>,

Joe Woodhouse <joe.woodhou...@sybase.com> wrote:
>
>"Son, it's high time you had a wife."
>"Certainly, Father. Whose wife would you suggest?"

Where's that from?
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Joe Woodhouse

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Apr 30, 2002, 12:25:48 AM4/30/02
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In article <aal286$apb$1...@panix3.panix.com>, aa...@panix.com
says...

> In article <MPG.1738b45f7...@news.cis.dfn.de>,
> Joe Woodhouse <joe.woodhou...@sybase.com> wrote:
> >
> >"Son, it's high time you had a wife."
> >"Certainly, Father. Whose wife would you suggest?"
>
> Where's that from?

Um. I don't know. I've known or heard it for many years though.
I think the first form I heard it in was "... take a wife/whose
wife should I take?".

Using that wording, I find one source attributing it to Lincoln,
himself recounting a story. [1] Another source attributes it to
Thomas Moore, also recounting it from elsewhere. [2]

Australian Joe

[1] Put together on one line :
http://www.blonnet.com/businessline/2000/08/28/stories/102818mz.
htm

[2] http://www.tribuneindia.com/2000/20001014/windows/main3.htm

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