On Sep 26, 3:28 pm, Andy Wainwright
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andrewrichardwainwri...@hotmail.co.uk> wrote:
> On 26/09/2012 14:52, Mel Rowing wrote:
> > Would not a better system be to pay benefits or the major portion of
> > benefits in the form of vouchers for food, clothing and accomodation?
> > The they will hve no money for drugs unless they work?
>
> What you're demonstrating here is a lack of understanding about mental
> illness, a commonplace occurance due to the well meant but misplaced
> religious values you were raised with.
What do you know about my upbringing? You weren't there! You weren't
even born!
> Tell a fatty or a drunk, who might very well be a gentle, kindly person
> at heart, what a useless load of shit they are, what's that honestly
> going to do? Make them eat more. Make them drink more. Eating disorders
> and substance addictions are the result of low self esteem. Mistreat
> such people, their self esteem is lowered, and they'll turn to whatever
> crutch they cling to.
And that crutch is other people's wallets! People who have competing
demands for their money.
They are not useless because I or anyone else says they're useless.
It's their lifestyle that makes them such. I would not be so ill
mannered as to call them useless even is I think such. Their social
image is there for all including themselves to see and evaluate.
Alcoholics do not generally enjoy enhanced neither do druggies and so,
increasingly obesity also attracts social disapproval. These values do
come out and come through. There is only one way to enhance one's
socail image and that is through behaviour.
> Low self esteem is usually the result of bullying. Bullying further
> doesn't help, but harms, and means the chances of making a recovery and
> returning to work are significantly lowered.
Rubbish. I suppose we've all been bullied in various ways on
occasions. We have to earn to cope and or deal with it. By and large
we don't rush into a corner and become an alcoholic or a druggie or
gorge ourselves.
It's remarkable that nobody drinks alcohol because they like and get
enjoyment out of it yet people still begin to partake of alcohol,
similarly nobody does drugs because because it provides them with some
kind of satisfaction yet people still take up drugs regardless of all
the social taboos that seek to dissuade them. Nobody over eats because
they enjoy their food.
All these conditions are self inflicted. What ever happened to the
society where everyone took responsibility for their own actions. Most
of us have come through it!