David wrote:
> ... My messages ...
>A condensation of what is there now would be:
>*
>[ what messages you
> would include if it was your list.]
>*
>I don't care what anyone believes as long as they are loving,
Belief and my care about the beliefs of another.
It makes sense to me that love is a good rule.
I might say, wearing my Taoist hat, that as long as loving
is spontaneous and natural, that would be the best form.
To make love a rule however, might turn what was
a natural emotion into an artificial standard.
A problem with standards is they can be arbitrary
and confusing to the heart-mind. Duality may arise.
When I know that I am loving, I may also know
when I am not-loving. Not being nice. Not caring.
Sometimes I'm just a shit-head.
If my high or highest standard is to be loving
and I see that I am not, then I may feel guilty.
So then, along with not being loving I have
one more emotional difficulty to deal with.
With my Taoist hat, out may pop a rabbit
that tells me to forget about being loving.
Just be. Simply be. And there's a potential
for love to be. Spontaneously. Naturally.
> or try to
>be as much as possible within constraints of life.
When I try to reach a goal, and when I reach a goal,
my tendency is to see a bit farther and further.
I see how I could have done more, much more.
This presents me with an infinite task.
Within the constraints of life,
with my DNA and my environments, I can see
how I am always loving as much as possible.
Then, wearing that hat, I don't need to try.
I am already being. The solution dissolves
all the material that was put into it.
All that mattered matters no m'ore.
Energy is released, freed of its s'hells.
Paradigms per baker's dozen.
Six of one. Seven of the other.
>The fundamental is love;
I'd say the fundamental is Tao.
Th'ats cuz I'm in a Taoist group.
> however this can not be always achieved and so
>one must at least strive for love.
I'd go for Tao, personally.
With love arises not-love.
Tao lifts me out of that realm of duality
and into a more unified state of consciousness.
Tao affords me a ticket
on a ride down a river of being
able to forget about stuff
that once may have mattered.
> Messages that conflict with that
>sentence must be discarded or edited to no longer conflict.
Having a goal or a cause can be motivating.
Having an infinite goal or endless cause can be tiring.
A struggle that will never cease might be how
one must be, if that's how one feels.
Peace of mind could take place
when goals, causes, struggles and various sides
of two-edged wordswords are transcended.
>and (derived from the above):
>
>1. strive towards perfect love
1. Relax. Simply be. If you feel like doing, do.
If you feel like not-doing, that can feel really good too.
Perfect love is not something to strive for.
Perfect love is what may occur
when one lets go.
Perfect and imperfect
are two sides of a coin
of a realm of exchanging
money in one's temple,
in the mind.
>2. If you communicate with a someone you must know the definition of
>that someone. A corollary is that, for non-atheists: if you follow a
>deity name (e.g. God) do not use the name blindly but know what it
>means.
2. When attempting to communicate
be aware of semantics and connotations. It is not uncommon
for words to have many meanings and baggage tags.
>3. there is no someone who is BOTH all-powerful AND perfectly good
3. Seeing the Universe as a who, or as if there is a Law
or set of Laws of Nature that "govern" is an anthropic
way of carving up, slicing, or filtering observations.
People naturally project, often unconsciously, without
thinking about what is happening dew with language.
Seeking the ring of truth, the all powerful rule
to bind all the others, to bring them into one equation,
and think that would be a perfectly good balance,
might end up being a tipsy beam to walk.
E=M*C*C
could raise light speed to the second power
and multiplied by mass, account for all the Energy
found in the Unverse, all the power. And it may seam
to be a perfectly good equation. It might explode
as atomic bombs as well.
>4. there are many possible paths up a mountain
4. And there could be many mountains.
Each may appear to be the highest.
And may actually be, in its own right.
What's left after that can be the down-side.
>5. not taking up a path unless it truly resonates with you
5. Truth is free. That worked for me.
Those who charge for it may have it
but it can't really be bought nor sold.
Assuming there is such a thing
two begin width.
>6. individual responsibility to be a seed of good
6. Being a bit obsessive and compulsive, I found myself
conflicted by responsibilities. I usually get places too early.
May take things too seriously. What can be a seed of good
can also have germs of bad in the bag as well.
It's good to be responsible. Definitely. Able to respond.
I try not to give my word so there's nothing to break.
Instead of saying I will or I can, I'd rather say
I will try. Or I can try. To do or to be, some thing/place.
Commitments might be necessary at times.
Leave plenty of time free to be free.
The time tree leaves
me hanging.
>7. believe anything that there is evidence for (but work to change it if
>it is not loving) and don't believe something that there is evidence
>against (but try to bring it into existence if it is loving) and feel
>free to believe anything you like that is loving (not harmful) and that
>has no evidence for or against it but don't shove such theories down
>anyone else's throat but feel free to share the beauty of them.
7. To share seems to me to be very natural.
To find a wonderful bright shiny thing and want to share it
tends to be a beautiful expression of joy. Be prepared however,
not everyone will see what you see in that thing. Others
might very well think it's a plain old rock, or a stupid
idea, or a piece of shit. Ignore them.
Except if she's your mom.
Then, she's probably right.
Go wash your hands.
>8. we are part of nature (or the environment) and not above nature
8. Little children are often taught that they are individuals.
And to be responsible. This, as a result, often leads to a feeling
that one is apart from rather than as well as a part of.
Knowing how the system goes, how to be an individual
can mean: one is apart from everything else, and, that each
individual can be a part of everything else, that everything
can be seen as being one, can be to know a great deal
and to hold a great hand over the heart-mind.
To see all things, all people, all events as natural
might be one more artificial filter or standard
used to exonerate being less than.
This too, can be seen as being
simply natural.
>9. some similarities between the lives (and in many cases message
>overlap to some extent too) of some past major pagan and major non-pagan
>figures (including Jesus) and me;
9. Everyone is the same in many ways.
Everyone is similar in many ways.
Everyone is different in many ways.
As being not-apart-from, there can be a sense within
which one actually is all that is, one is one, everything.
In that sense, one is everyone. One was, all that.
All those past figures are what one was.
Ultimately, there is only one One
when seen in a unified light.
When playing tag
you can be it.
Life is often a game of tag.
When you are it, everyone else runs.
They run away, won't let you near.
When you think you are it, all that,
be prepared to pay for that thought.
>10. sex between incompatibles is an abomination, sex between compatibles
>is not
10. Sex can be fun. Sex can also be deadly.
Emotions can be released that have unanticipated
consequences. Uncontolled emotions may emerge.
There has been advice given on how to have fun,
how to protect oneself in the process.
10a. If it's only for fun it may not mean much.
And it may mean a whole lot of not-fun stuff.
What seemed like a good idea might turn out
to be a really bad idea later on.
10b. Go slow. Find friends if possible.
Go steady. Be exclusive. Get engaged.
Form a partnership. And after a long time,
like, more than just one night, then go on
a honeymoon. That might seem to be a way
to avoid many of the pitfalls of sharing love
physically and emotionally.
10c. Being intimate can be to be involved.
When involved, one may be open, vulnerable.
10d. Ships tend to sail out to see. A journey
of a n'ocean can begin with a single wave.
After a voyage is over, after being involved,
a process may include being evolved.
10e. Being evolved, one may be on higher ground,
be more inclusive once again, have more wisdom,
be able to sea further, farther, even, oddly,
over the horizon's fine lines in between.
>Can you suggest any improvements in the above list?
It's a never-ending list of lists
in my book of books and views of views.
They cycle and recycle as seasons.
Variations on a theme. The hat, aye, callsits
a form of Taoism, for lack of utter terms.
- thanks!