Is the true, surreal homeland of D/s attainable only through your fever-dreams
and fragile fantasies … to be visited only through novels or glimpsed in the
occasional perfect photograph or fragment of video or film? Naaah!
If you’re female, intelligent, imaginative, capable, clean, cautious,
slender-to-reasonably-HWP, submissive, discreetly depraved and bisexual on
command, come give me your hand, heart, mind and body; I’ll give you your
dreams made flesh. We’ll create realized-fantasy episodes that would read well
as literature, look good as video/photo art-porn and express a constant
emotional truth; absolutely real sex, discipline and humiliation, but shaped by
an aesthetic that makes each scene much more than a catalog of implements and
indignities. (Oh, sure, how can you believe THAT if I ignore the inevitable
truth that this scene will always have its blooper moments and pratfalls into
low comedy … do you suppose they called it "slapstick" by accident? Was
Chaplin’s cane a coincidence? But bear with me … PERCENTAGE-wise, this is the
glamorous enslavement you deserve!) Why play just one role when you can be O;
Beauty; Trixxie the Space Whore; Darla, the Petite Package of Nubile
Naughtiness; Beth Anne, spanky queen of the second grade and even Baby Widdles,
all with lavish, loving close-ups and the occasional cast of several!
I’m 6', 195, mid 50s, short white hair and beard, considered good looking,
clean, capable, considerate (after my nasty Dom fashion)and understand others'
needs quickly. I love books, music, cooking, conversation, the absolute
enslavement of a strong, classy, lewd woman, and sharing these joys with
like-minded (M/f, F/f) couples and groups. I love exhibition and display of
subs but I'm fanatic about discretion; like administering discipline but I'm
repelled by damaging slaves; love humiliation, hate hurt feelings.
I'm attracted by people who go all out for their fantasies but take care not to
screw up their lives ... people who look good, smell good, tell the truth, show
some class, think, feel and share well. My dislike borders on outright
loathing for lying, rudeness, poor hygiene and dullness.
My limits are few … if there’s minimal tissue damage, nobody gets hurt beyond
the bounds of enjoyable discipline and it doesn’t smell bad, spread disease,
involve children or animals or attract the cops, I consider anything possible
that turns on people I like and respect enough to play with. I consider the
ability to share and play these games gracefully one small, faltering but
glorious step towards World Peace.
… and the boilerplate: I've taken some pains here to tell you significant stuff
about myself, so I'd like a similar effort from you (BDSM interests,
experience, goals, limits, life situation, physical description or discreet
JPG) before I put more on the table. I'm not interested in cyber-sex or
pen-pals, but if its about SOME kind of RT relationship, I'd love to hear from
you.
Budao