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 More options Sep 21 2008, 11:04 pm
Newsgroups: alt.obituaries
From: jennyn...@sympatico.ca
Date: Sun, 21 Sep 2008 20:04:13 -0700 (PDT)
Local: Sun, Sep 21 2008 11:04 pm
Subject: Re: Peter Kastner, 64: Actor recalled for role as rebel
On Sep 20, 5:15 pm, King Daevid MacKenzie <KingDae...@cox.net> wrote:

> Estranged from famous Toronto family, he found fame early in movies,
> sitcoms and
> Broadway

> Sep 20, 2008

> Martin Knelman - Toronto Star
> Entertainment Columnist

> Peter Kastner - who will always be remembered as the juvenile delinquent
> rebelling against his upper-middle-class Canadian parents in the 1965
> surprise
> hit Nobody Waved Goodbye - died suddenly Thursday night while driving
> his car in
> downtown Toronto.

> The cause was apparently a heart attack. He was less than two weeks shy
> of his
> 65th birthday.

> Kastner achieved stardom early, beginning as a child actor in the early
> days of
> Canadian TV and winding up in Hollywood as the star of Francis Ford
> Coppola's
> 1966 comedy You're a Big Boy Now.

> But after starring in a disastrous ABC sitcom, The Ugliest Girl in Town, in
> which he played a young man disguised as a young woman, his career
> tanked, and
> his life story turned into a bizarre twist on Sunset Boulevard, with
> Kastner
> turning into an updated Canadian male incarnation of Norma Desmond, the
> deluded
> former star of silent movies.

> After moving back to Toronto from the U.S. a few years ago, Kastner played
> coffee houses (including Free Times Café) and comedy clubs (including
> Yuk Yuks)
> with a one-man show. He not only milked the irony of his own career
> crash but
> attacked his mother, the late Rose Kastner, resulting in a bitter
> estrangement
> from his three siblings and other members of the family.

> "We all adored him when we were growing up," says his brother John,
> Gemini and
> Emmy-winning documentary director. "He was hugely talented and seemed
> blessed by
> the gods. But he left home at 18, and we don't know why he became so
> troubled.
> We just did not recognize the Peter Kastner of the last decades.

> "We were all estranged from him, but we wished him well. He seemed to be
> mired
> in a bitter, angry attack on the family that loved him so much. And in
> our view,
> it was full of lies, especially about our mother. We couldn't understand
> it."

> Peter was the second of four children who grew up in the family home
> backing
> onto a Forest Hill ravine. Their parents, prominent leftists, were in the
> printing and publishing business.

> Peter's older sister, Susan, was a Star staff writer for many years.
> John, who
> followed in Peter's footsteps as an actor early on, went on to a
> distinguished
> career as a film producer-director. Their younger sister, Kathy
> Kastner-Berns,
> worked for a time as host of a Toronto CBC current-affairs show.

> With encouragement from Rose, Peter gained acclaim as an amateur in the
> Dominion
> Drama Festival and was spotted by a CBC casting director who gave him
> his big
> break in a children's drama called Emil and the Detectives. He remained
> a busy
> child actor and, at age 18, starred in the popular Canadian variety show
> Time of
> Your Life.

> Nobody Waved Goodbye, directed by Don Owen, was supposed to be a
> National Film
> Board documentary but became an improvised drama with Kastner earning
> acclaim
> for his performance as an endearing, misunderstood teenage rebel. The
> movie had
> a fresh, authentic flavour, and Kastner's performance combined bite with
> charm.

> When it played the New York Film Festival in 1965, it was called
> "marvellous" by
> The New Yorker's Brendan Gill and was chosen one of the year's best by
> critic
> Judith Crist.

> The next year Kastner was starring in Coppola's coming-of-age comedy,
> with a
> supporting cast that included such icons as Rip Torn and Geraldine Page.
> That
> performance came close to landing Peter the lead in The Graduate - but Mike
> Nichols gave the role instead to Dustin Hoffman. Kastner also had a
> success on
> Broadway in The Playroom opposite Karen Black, who was his girlfriend
> for some
> time.

> His ABC sitcom, The Ugliest Girl in Town, made him some serious money
> but turned
> out to be a career-killer he could never live down. It was high on TV
> Guide's
> list of the 50 worst series ever made.

> In the 1970s and 1980s Kastner appeared in minor movie roles and acted
> frequently on episodic TV series including King of Kensington. But his
> career
> was on life support by the time he made his last movie, Unfinished
> Business -
> Owen's sequel to Nobody Waved Goodbye - in 1984.

> "He has been a mythic figure for much of my life," says Jamie Kastner, his
> nephew, "but I have this sense of someone with huge talent who somehow went
> awry."

> Last year when Jamie's film Kike Like Me was being screened at Hot Docs
> and the
> Toronto Jewish Film Festival, his uncle Peter distributed flyers
> promoting his
> own one-man show, including a video attacking the Kastner family. The flyer
> featured the Star's glowing obit for Rose, along with a promise to tell
> the real
> truth about his mother.

> Besides his siblings, Kastner leaves his second wife, Jenny.

> http://www.thestar.com/News/GTA/article/502845

> http://tinyurl.com/4qbs66
> --

> kdmhttp://kingdaevid.podbean.com/http://amp.az/home/User/KingDaevid
> peace 'n oranges...

As the late Peter Kastner's widow (who was not contacted by Martin
Knelman nor John nor Jamie Kastner, the sole sources cited in the
article), I am disappointed by the tenor and content of Martin
Knelman's obituary.  Peter and I were together for 34 years.  The
Peter I knew was not to be found in Knelman's piece.  The sources
cited had refused all contact with him for 25 years.

First, some minor innaccuracies: he wasn't driving when he died, he
had pulled over to the side of the road.  He was not in downtown
Toronto.  He never came close to landing the lead in The Graduate, but
was just one of a cattle call of actors who read for the part.

I am offended at having him portrayed as Norma Desmond a comparison--
with a reclusive, delusional actress -- that is unfair to Peter and
unfair to his memory.   Nothing addresses the fine qualities of Peter
which would not paint him in such a negative and deluded light.  His
identity was not wrapped up in being an actor.

After he left acting he became a high school English teacher.  He
became a songwriter and maker of quirky and interesting videos on a
wide range of subjects. He mentored many teenagers, helped raise his
step-daughter and was the constant delight of his grandchildren.

Not only is the article inaccurate on a factual basis, it is also a
gross misrepresentation of Peter's life after he left acting. The
Peter I knew was actively engaged in the world, through his video
work, his songwriting, his political activism and his many
friendships.

It would have been nice if Knelman had mentioned his first wife Wendy
Miller, who also mourns him.
The incomplete view presented by Knelman fails to capture the
sweetness and soul of the good man who died in his parked car on
September 18th, 2008.


 
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