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j.j

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May 15, 2001, 4:26:57 PM5/15/01
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glad to hear ur on u way to getting better now can i ask a question ?
i need some advice myself what do you do about a husband who ha no
motivation to do anything but sit on the couch and watch life go by do u
sit with him or leave him by hisself

Rich

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May 16, 2001, 4:33:36 AM5/16/01
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jj,

If you want him, sit with him on the couch in something seductive but not to
seductive...If you know what I mean.

Then if his attention goes to you instead of the TV then I would say it is just
a pastime.

Is he helping you around the house though and just sitting there afterwards??

Is he to old to get up off the couch?? or is he to drunk to get up off the
couch??

Other factors may be involved, give him the benefit of the doubt for now and
email or reply to group here and let me know.

Leteron'
Rich

psst....Thanks and any help or advice you can give me would be appreciated
also...

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j.j

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May 16, 2001, 3:54:22 PM5/16/01
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HE IS 34 HE WORKS AT A GAS STATION
HE GETS HOME DOES NO HOUSE WORK
HE DOESNT DRINK JUST A LIL HERB NOW AND THEN WHICH ISNT ALOUND IN MY
HOU8SE AROUND MY KIDS AND SOMETIMES HE JUST WATCHES TV SOMETIMES I VE
GOT HIS ATTENTION

bluem...@webtv.net

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May 16, 2001, 5:47:07 PM5/16/01
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leave him

Dana Bird

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May 16, 2001, 7:37:45 PM5/16/01
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"j.j" wrote:

Hehehehe, at least your husband sits on the couch...mine sits in front of
the computer for hours and hours on end (last bout was 39 straight). He
hasn't worked a day since he was laid off almost two years ago, and it has
been me who has been paying all of the bills. I have tried to talk to him
about all of the pressure that I am under but it doesn't seem to fizz on
him. He tells me things will change, but I have yet to see any of that.

Now, the mortgage is coming up for renewal and I'm not going to be able to
renew it on what I make alone...house has to be put up for sale and off to
somewhere else I go.


Carmita

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May 18, 2001, 4:57:04 AM5/18/01
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Get dressed up and go out ........call him from a phone booth and let
him know that you need him. Make a game of it......you might find that
after awhile he is into another type of game and into your arms!!!


"In all thy ways acknowledge him...."
Proverbs 3:6
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Carmita

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May 18, 2001, 4:53:23 AM5/18/01
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You clean up around him, sat out some cheese and crackers, maybe a
little wind, soft music, dimmed lights, and wear nothing but a smile.

If none of that works..........
You get dressed up, take yourself out to a dinner and movie, make plans
to meet friends and join new activies to preoccupy yourself.

j.j

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May 18, 2001, 4:37:20 PM5/18/01
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WELL I GUESS I FEEBETTER I DO GET HIS PAYCHECK TO PAY BIILS READING UR
EMAIL MADE ME FEEL LIKE I NEEDED REVIEW MY THINKIN

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