RoseBud
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My wife has her critical moments. attacks on my self esteem. Delays even
coming home till hours after work. Eats out rather than enjoying the
garden . Never even works in the garden. But gives away produce.\
back seat drives but she's the one who has accidents (minor ones) gets
tickets for speeding.
Hasn't wanted sex in over one year, doesn't give me a hand, if you know
what I mean.
Says she loves me, but I felt just strung along.
I suspect she was molested by a relative, but I don't know how to bring
it up. October is domestic violence month. And I think this is mainly
emotional abuse. a lot of shaming and blaming. nothing physical. Yet.
I'm thinking the first step is for me to seek counseling , first to
learn about my first steps. BTW I'm 68, wife 53
any hints. group?
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Karma, What a concept!