Please tell us some specifics about your computer, OS, and its environment, plus file size, free drive space, etc.
Thanks.
Neil
Some people work so damn slowly, on crap quality files that they don't NOTICE these things. Just ignore them.
Go into Photoshop > Preferences > Transparency and Gamut > Transparency Settings > Grid Size and make sure that value is NOT set to "None". Any of the other choices are fine, but "None" is known to cause a lag with curve points.
If having a grid bothers you for any reason, you can just set the Grid Colors to White.