I use a color filter, I've no idea how close the effect is to the "native filter", but looks great.
/**
* Mutates and applies a filter that converts the given drawable to a Gray image. This method
* may be used to simulate the color of disable icons in Honeycomb's ActionBar.
*
* @return a mutated version of the given drawable with a color filter applied.
*/
public static Drawable convertDrawableToGrayScale(Drawable drawable) {
if (drawable == null) {
return null;
}
Drawable res = drawable.mutate();
res.setColorFilter(Color.GRAY, PorterDuff.Mode.SRC_IN);
return res;